I'm not going to erase any previous posts. I don't hide my wrathful past. I'm just going to make an effort to put aside any residual anger to anyone who screwed me over. In my reality, I love you, and nothing is going to stop me from expressing that love. Love is not hiding from people and saying you forgive them, yet not interacting with them to show that love. That's avoidance and indifference, the opposite of love. Love means you can go up to the person you don't like, and give them the shirt off your back if they need it. That's love.
Loving your enemies is a difficult process, but the more you love them, the less they are your enemies.